• Editor’s note: This is the third in a series of columns discussing leadership on Kaua‘i — a place where leaders discuss the qualities and expectations of leadership specific to the Garden Island. Human nature repeats itself. We all feel
• Editor’s note: This is the third in a series of columns discussing leadership on Kaua‘i — a place where leaders discuss the qualities and expectations of leadership specific to the Garden Island.
Human nature repeats itself. We all feel the need to fit in whether at work, on a sports team or in a club. The feeling lingers from generation to generation.
It brings me back to elementary and high school — wanting to have those cool Reef slippers or hang out with the popular group. Instead I was at home raking the yard, burning rubbish and taking care of the pets. On weekends my family and I would go fishing and hunting. I felt out of place by not being able to have those things and not being able to talk about it. One can become consumed by it and in turn become critical of themselves.
As the years passed I’ve gained a better understanding and perspective of what consumerism and vanity mean and learned to separate myself from the demands of society.
When I reflect back on my youth I am grateful for the cultural upbringing and sustainibility that I learned at such an early age. Living the kanaka maoli way, where you are taught to work off the land and take care of it with pride, will always be beneficial in this ever-changing world.
Several years into the workforce I manage a team of wonderful people at the Regency at Puakea Lehua dining room. There is no need for me to fit in because my individuality is a valuable asset to the company. By being myself, I stay true to who I am and who I was created to be. From this personal growth I encourage diversity in the workplace by creating a culture by design where all employees are supported to bring their own uniqueness and at the same time perform as a unified front.
As Martin Luther King Jr. said, “Everyone can be great because anybody can serve.”
You don’t have to have a college degree to serve. You don’t have to make your subject and verb agree to serve. You only need a heart full of grace — a soul generated by love.
I encourage everyone to be his or her own leader. Everyone is special and made out of greatness. The need is to exemplify your talents and gifts and cultivate leadership in whatever you do.
