Volunteers reach out to visitorsBy PAUL C. CURTIS TGI Staff Writer A small, islandwide group of volunteers reaches out to visitors who are victims of crime on Kaua’i, trying to take some of the sting out of being traumatized in
Volunteers reach out to visitorsBy PAUL C. CURTIS
TGI Staff Writer
A small, islandwide group of volunteers reaches
out to visitors who are victims of crime on Kaua’i, trying to take some of the
sting out of being traumatized in paradise.
Oftentimes, when a member of
the Visitor Aloha Society of Kaua’i calls a vacationer who has become a crime
victim, the visitor is pleasantly surprised. Out of the blue comes a telephone
call, and on the other end of the phone is someone who wants to help, who
cares, the visitors sense.
“They seemed to be so happy to tell someone
their story,” said the Rev. Fred Wenger, a volunteer since Visitor Aloha formed
two years ago. “They’ve got a story to tell because they’ve been through an
ordeal.”
Many of the visitors have suffered losses through car and hotel
break-ins. One woke up to find an intruder in the hotel room, said Pam Brown,
society board president.
During a volunteer training session at the Kaua’i
Marriott Resort & Beach Club last week, volunteers were congratulated and
thanked for their efforts. They learned more about the proper way to assist
visitors who are victims of crime.
Visitor Aloha Society was formed in 1998
“to give a little aloha to crime victims,” said Brown. She said the “terrific
public-private partnership” between the organization, Mayor Maryanne Kusaka and
the Kaua’i Police makes the organization effective.
Kusaka tried to start a
similar organization before, but people thought it was politically motivated
and didn’t back the idea, Brown told the 20 people gathered for volunteer
training.
Police chief George Freitas said there is only so much officers
can do to assist visitors who become crime victims on Kaua’i, and Visitor Aloha
Society serves an important function for victims.
“They’re in our house,
something unfortunate has happened to them, and we want to help them out,”
Freitas said.
The group’s work “puts a positive closure on a negative
situation, he continued.
Freitas said that more times than not, it will be
the small things an officer says to and does for a crime victim (being polite,
courteous and understanding, for example), rather than the big things, that the
victim is likely to remember and be impressed with.
It’s almost like
recovering the wallet, purse or camera becomes a happy plus to what has already
been a positive encounter with authorities, Freitas said.
Freitas thanked
Brown and Laurie Yoshida, Visitor Aloha Society’s executive director, for their
efforts.
“That lady Pam Brown, I don’t know where she gets her energy,”
said Freitas. Yoshida “keeps it all going,” he added.
A film of the
volunteer training will shown to police recruits learning how to deal with
crime victims.
Freitas said it makes sense for officials of the visitor
industry to be involved in Visitor Aloha Society, as unfavorable reports of
visitors becoming victims can hurt the island and the state’s most important
industry – tourism.
Brown recalled an incident that happened to Brad
Snyder, head of Marriott’s Pacific Islands operations.
Snyder was on a
panel in Japan discussing how Hawai’i can do a better job attracting Japanese
visitors, and the first question to him was about the crime rate in Hawai’i,
Brown recalled.
Snyder, who was instrumental in getting Visitor Aloha
Society started, said the experience hit home for him, especially when
discussing the ripple effect visitor crime has in the visitor’s home town.
Marriott’s security department acts as dispatcher for the volunteers,
after police officers fax crime reports involving visitors to the hotel.
A
volunteer is assigned the case, which can involve as little as five minutes of
their time via telephone, and up to six days in at least one case (the
volunteer and victim became friends).
A four-page list of concerned
individuals and businesses offering free or reduced-price goods and services to
visitors who are victims of crime shows the program has widespread community
support.
But, as Wenger says, “the caring, the warmth, they’ll remember”
much longer than the freebies.
Dr. Dianne Girard, a psychologist on the
island, explained that victims are angry, frustrated, unsure of what they
should do next, and full of feelings of shock and grief, with many “would’ves”
and “should’ves” dancing through their heads.
They’ll also carry long-term
attitudes about Kaua’i, she continued.
Volunteers must keep the focus on
the person, and don’t tell him or her “this happens all the time,” or “this
hardly ever happens,” Girard said. “They don’t care about statistics, because
they’re the only victim.”
Volunteers shouldn’t feel they have to try to
recover the stolen goods, or reverse whatever happened to the victim.
“The
idea is to give the victim the feeling that they’re connecting with another
human being,” whether in person or in writing (some crime victims have left the
island before they can be contacted), Girard said.
“If there’s nothing you
can do besides listen to them, that’s OK, and that’s enough. And that’s a lot,”
she said. “That’s the whole thing.”
The work of Visitor Aloha Society is
funded by the Hawai’i Tourism Authority, an annual grant from the Hawai’i Hotel
Association’s Kaua’i chapter through proceeds from the Visitor Industry Charity
Walk, A&B Foundation and other organizations.
Staff writer Paul C.
Curtis can be reached at 245-3681 (ext. 224) and
pcurtis@pulitzer.net
Staff Photo by Dennis Fujimoto
More often
than not, visitors to Kaua’i such as Heather and Tom Gurth of Washington, D.C.,
who arrived Monday at Lihu’e Airport, will have a crime-free stay on the
island. For those who don’t, there’s Visitor Aloha Society of Kaua’i, a
volunteer group that tries to take some of the sting out of the
unpleasantness.